- Assimilate or Go Home: Notes from a Failed Missionary on Rediscovering Faith by Mayfield (3/5) –
|This is a beautiful book about a lady who finds out alot about God living near refugees. I feel like this is the perfect book for what we are going through in America. The only negative thing is that it was hard to be engaged at times because of the poor writing style.
47 Meters Down (4/5)– This movie was about two girls who were cage diving with great white sharks. The rope disconnected and they fell down to the ocean floor. Trying to make it make it back to the boat alive. This was such an interesting movie and I recommend it.
- I went to Wild Life Reserve to celebrate my birthday. It was a ton of fun. I now have warm and fuzzy feelings for animals.
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I always complain that I don’t have any friends in my area. The truth would is I don’t have any friends in the area I live. But I definitely have deep friendships. Five that I can count on. They listen to me, are there for me, know my deepest darkest secrets, and always put a smile on my face. Did you know One in 10 people do not have a close friend and even more feel unloved. Researchers at Harvard have even concluded Having no friends could be as deadly as smoking. We need relationships. God created Adam and Eve so Adam wouldn’t be lonely. But we don’t need the shallow service on conversations. We need someone to sit us down and ask how we are and really mean it. One day I will hopefully do a post on friendships in the Bible. But for now really try to get to know people. Listen to what they have to say. Care about them. Love people well.
I noticed something recently. I am never satisfied in life. When God answers a prayer I am not grateful. I just focus on the ones that He hasn’t answered the way I want Him to. Now I am trying to be more intentional about thanking God for what he blessed me with. By being intentional I notice things God has given me that I never have said thanks for. It has made me so much more appreciative. There someways you can do this. I say little prayers as I think of my blessings throughout the day. You can write in your journal a bullet list if you want. Just do what works best for you. If you can’t think of anything you can always turn to the Bible and it tells a lot of things God has done for us.
Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good; his love endures forever. – 1 Chronicles 16:34
Moana (1/5) – I did not care for this disney movie at all.
Before I Fall (3/5) – This movie just kept repeating itself so it was kind of boring.
Split (1/5) – this was a really weird movie about a guy will multiply personalities kidnapping three young girls.
Get Out (1/5)– This movie was supposed to show how racism still exists. This movie was bizarre.
Gifted (5/5) – An uncle raises his niece after his sister takes her own life. The daughter is gifted. He is trying to figure out how to help this child live a happy normal life.
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CATWALK SHAMPOO- I love this shampoo. Most shampoos are the same. This actually makes my hair have more volume and less frizzy.
Love Lives Here by Maria Goff (4/5) – This is a book about her life and how chooses to learn from her experiences. This a wonderful book.
Singled Out: Why Celibacy Must Be Reinvented in Today’s Church by Christine A. Colón and Bonnie E. Field (4/5)- This book explores what singles are facing in the church. It helps us see that they are marginalized. It also shows how we can make them feel more included. I have always struggled as a single in churches because they usually focus on married people. It also encourages singles to plug into a church no matter how difficult it is. This book also show us that we focus to much on the nuclear family and not enough on the family of the Body of Christ.
How to Survive a Shipwreck by Jonathan Martin (2/5)- I love Jonathan Martin but I was not impressed with this book. I was going through a really bad time and thought this would be helpful. It was confusing and vague.
The Choice (5/5) – This was a wonderful thought provoking hopeless romantic movie.
On the Other Side of the Door (4/5) – A mother’s son dies a tragic death. She brings his spirit back and he becomes evil. I loved this horror movie.
Beauty and the Beast (5/5) – excellent live recreation of this story.
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“To whom do I owe the biggest apology? No one’s been crueller than I’ve been to me.”
I grew up in environments that caused me to hate myself. Most of my life I felt stupid, weird, hated, ugly, and worthless. To be honest I still feel these things. However, I am growing to love myself. It will take awhile to be fully there. But I am learning baby steps are okay. I wanted to share some of the things that mentors have shared with me.
- A mentor told me that I can’t tolerate people because I can’t tolerate my self. This was a punch in the gut ( metaphorically). I was upset , angry, and offended when I heard this but it was true. I was constantly harsh on other people. If you get annoyed and dislike other people it could be a sign that you aren’t loving and accepting yourself.
- My counselor and I talk about being Selfish versus having Self Interest. Selfish is lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one’s own personal profit or pleasure. Self Interest refers to a focus on the needs or desires (interests) of the self. ( however if you google it you will get the same definition as you did for self fish. This is the one time I trust what wikipedia says over a dictionary. ) I always have to try to follow what other people like to fit in. If someone told me that I was dumb because I didn’t like going to baseball games then I would start attending baseball games. But what I am learning is I am allowed to dislike and like what I want. If I want to dislike baseball games even though my friends enjoy it that is okay. I can choose not to go to the baseball game if I want. This is just one of many examples on how having Self Interest is okay.
- I had several mentors tell me that I am insecure. Even though this is great insight to understanding myself. I learned that being insecure is self loathing. Telling me that I am insecure doesn’t work. You have to teach people how to be secure in themselves. I am slowly learning the process.